As an art form, ikebana requires practitioners to be ruthless at pruning. It is an art of genteel elegance and detached efficiency. Every piece placed in the receptacle has to earn its place. Unlike western floral arrangements which prioritises showiness, abundance and extravagance, ikebana tends towards simplicity. For years I had wanted to try this art form, but in practice I was shocked at the amount of plant matter I had to trim away for an acceptable ikebana arrangement.

Warmth. Light. Air. The sun pours life and energy from its lofty seat. A gentle pulsing echoes through each cell: exhale, inhale, exhale. I can feel the silent urging: open, open, open. Not yet, I think. Her hands are tentative as she holds me. Her fingers brush over me, soft as a breath. She is filled with anticipation. High expectations. I will be her first, she declares aloud to no one in particular. Two ants pause to exchange messages on a leaf stalk. I will be her fir